Written By Olena Riznyk
LUCAN BIDDULPH – At the September 3 council meeting, Diane Bergsma shared the story behind Three Oaks Cabin, a remarkable initiative born from personal tragedy and aimed at supporting farmers and first responders. The cabin, nestled in a serene 50-acre woodland near Shetland, offers a retreat designed to address the unique mental health challenges faced by these hardworking individuals.
Diane, who farms with her husband, described their life in Shetland and the impact of their son Dallas’s tragic death by suicide. Dallas, a vibrant and ambitious young man, had dedicated himself to both farming and serving as a firefighter. Despite his achievements and the love surrounding him, Dallas struggled with the mounting pressures of his dual roles and the personal toll they took on him. His death highlighted the dire need for mental health resources specifically tailored to the agricultural and emergency service communities.
Three Oaks Cabin emerged from the Bergsma family’s profound grief and their desire to make a difference. The cabin symbolizes hope and resilience, providing a peaceful haven where those who serve others can take a much-needed break. The facility, a beautifully constructed three-bedroom log home, accommodates up to six people and includes a loft for workshops or therapeutic sessions. It is designed to be a safe space where guests can find respite from the pressures of their demanding professions.
Since opening in May, Three Oaks Cabin has welcomed numerous guests, providing them with a tranquil environment to recharge and reflect. The cabin is available free of charge, with accommodations for families and individuals. The Bergsmas have partnered with the National Farmers Mental Health Alliance to offer self-directed programming and workshops facilitated by therapists who understand the unique challenges faced by farmers and first responders. These programs are crucial in addressing the mental health needs of those who often put others’ well-being before their own.
Diane’s heartfelt presentation emphasized the importance of community support and the need to address mental health openly. She spoke about the significance of checking in with each other, acknowledging our burdens, and offering help when needed. Diane’s message was clear: while we cannot fix every problem, we can provide support and understanding, creating spaces where people can find solace and healing.
The response from the community was overwhelmingly positive, with many expressing their appreciation for the initiative and committing to spreading the word about Three Oaks Cabin.
